True Love, How to Obtain It

You may have become angry or resentful because you give and are not given to in return and thusly your body will abscess with poison that is being oppressed within and is seeking an avenue of outlet. Or your heart will be in pain and you will have what is called a heart attack; know the heart does not attack, it is reacting in defense of being ignored by you. Have you been looking for love in all the wrong places and in too many faces; only to find more pain and despair?

True Love is the remembrance and moment-to-moment application and expression of self-love. This honors the value of you, your divine magnificence. When you engage in trying to satisfy the unappeasable you are doing nothing more than giving them the power to control your life. Of course the powerful one is the subtle redeemer of all your good deeds, and can effortlessly play the game all day long everyday. It's much more important to empower yourself by knowing where your love really exists, than it is to be drained of your energy or continue to feel betrayed and end up abandoned by continually giving to someone who is not giving back to you.

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Then it is time to find out the truth regarding your search for true love. You don't need to engage in an endless search for Mr. or Mrs. Right, nor do you settle or compromise for any Mr. or Mrs. Right now. If you continue to search for Mr. or Mrs. Right you will inevitably lose yourself trying to please others who can never really be pleased.

Instead of surviving in the lack of love where you find yourself alone, you turn your precious love and attention towards the person who most deserves it, you! So that you can become very consciously aware of any inner healing that is necessary to occur within you that has caused you to invest so much of yourself without any returns.

You will want to attend to you to be sure you eliminate anything inside of you that is causing you to attract those outer relationships that are less than honorable, respectful and loving. Your healing can occur quickly; as when you are engaged in paying attention to the true love of self, your heart opens and is willing to receive.

The difficulty for most in accepting and acknowledging their own true love is due to the painful experiences from past lives and the past in this life. These experiences are encoded on a cellular level within you. You fear being fully open with your freedom of expression of self on all levels, not just due to the old painful experiences, but at the real causal level originating from when you first chose to lower your vibration to digress into matter, human form when you subscribed to incorrectly believing you are unworthy of true love.

When you incarnate, you came in with a veil of forgetfulness. You are not conscious of this veil, and thusly, you sense a separation from your source, God/Goddess.

In human form you have an ego, or the lower mental mind. This lower mental mind does not have the capacity of understanding like the universal higher mind does. The lower mind attempts to calculate and figure everything out rather than simply connecting to the inner feelings of love.

The lower mind attempting to figure out the sensation of separation, reasons that you must have done something wrong, and your abandonment is a direct punishment for your incorrectly perceived crime. The ego doesn't remember that your soul made the choice to simply experience incarnation for the very purpose of realizing the love it truly is.

Thusly, it calculates if you have done wrong you must be penalized for your wrong doing in some manner. You engage in one life experience after another punishing self in one form or another for doing nothing more than choosing life on earth.

These self-abusing experiences accumulate and compound as you continue to cycle through this incorrect belief of wrong doing punishable by whatever. What you are really unconsciously doing is creating one opportunity after another to be able to see the higher truth of being your own true love. Unfortunately, you as well as many have been stuck in this unhealthy behavior for eons

The self-punishment does have a silver lining, as a result of your multiple painful experiences, you can realize the greater truth that states you have done no wrong, the truth that states you can do no wrong because you are and have always been love. Love that is creating many experiences to realize it is love personified.

The time is now, as this is the Golden age of Heaven on Earth, where all will come to realize the truth of the true love of self.

You need not wait for anyone else to shift your incorrect beliefs into divine knowingness, nor do you need to fear them any longer. For those whom are still not ready to fully awaken to the truth will not be able to get any where near you once you choose love. When you are connected to your true love, you will not encounter these souls, as you have in the past; who are choosing to live in a lower vibration and are stuck in treating others badly because they don't value themselves to begin with.

You need not fear being vulnerable and walking with an open heart, as those who have not yet learned to love themselves simply will not cross your path. The energy of love is a far greater frequency and nothing vibrating from fear will be able to get any where near you. Love cannot encounter fear and those players who are stuck in fear will be on different grounds where they will continue to have the necessary less than loving experiences, so they can come to the same realization of remembering they were never lacking love and need not steal it from another.

When you incorrectly believe you are lacking love, you seek outside of yourself, another person, place or thing that will fulfill and satisfy this sense of lacking. You continue to pursue others one after the other in search of the love you are not willing to give yourself. Sometimes you may play the role of the victim by giving and never receiving equally in return, or you might take on the opposing role of the abuser, where you constantly take without ever being satisfied.

When you play the victim you give anyone and/or everyone the credits for your feel goods and you also project the blame for your feel bads. When you are the abuser you simply blame everyone for everything therefore righteously licensing your terrible treatment of others.

The ego is insatiable because it thrives on the sense of lack; lack is what fuels its fires and thusly you give the power to the ego of self, in your endless search of another to fulfill the very love of which you already are.

Until you are willing, as you have always been able, to stay and master the ego and its control over you and your life by realizing you are responsible for all the choices you have made; you will never come to know and live in the bliss of true love.

Your true love is you!

It does not exist outside of you. The one that exists outside of you is known more commonly as, the conscious life partner or twin flame. Although you will never enjoy the benefits of this whole relationship either until you realize your wholeness lies within.

How could you expect a whole individual to desire to live with and stand by the side of one who believes they are half a person, or lesser than. It simply cannot occur because the vibratory rates are completely different.

The whole individual is vibrating with a frequency of abundance of love of self and therefore lacks nothing. This individual needs no one, even though they may choose to share their life with another. The half individual perceives they are in lack and therefore is always needy. The half person lives in fear and the whole person lives in love, as stated above love and fear simply cannot encounter one another.

You have already experienced the kind of relationship when two fearful low vibrating individuals get together. These two are like separate halfs attempting to make a whole. They may be very attracted at first, because they are both looking for the same thing, someone to make them whole. Eventually they will unconsciously battle over control of the whole. Often with each half switching roles flipping back and forth from the powerful controlling one to the submissive one.

When you incorrectly believe that you lack something and then engage in attempts to fulfill yourself outside of yourself, you will experience being surrounded by many who seem to not want to give you the time of day. They dismiss your opinion as if it is worthless and they don't return the love you wish to give or have given to them.

Anyone one who believes they are not fulfilled without the other half is holding a lower vibration and cannot realize true love until they heal their incorrect beliefs about being less than love, less than loving, less than lovable and less than loved.

Opposing energies cannot meet and stay together for an extended period of time unless one or both change to vibrate at the same rate of frequency. The higher vibrational person will never encounter the lower vibrational individual unless they are participating in their lives for the purpose of healing. In as such the relationship is only temporary unless the lower vibratory person raises its frequency to love and/or the higher vibratory person lowers it frequency to fear.

You will not realize and walk side by side with that life partner or twin flame and/or peers until you are whole yourself. All those that come across your path are always a reflection of self. They are messengers to radiate back to you who you are in any given moment. You will always be surrounded by those that represent who you presently are, who you were in the recent past and who you are becoming in the near future, as you awaken to the true love of self.

Understanding the mirror those around you are reflecting back to you for your greater good and immediate benefit allows you to disengage yourself from another aspect of the lower mental mind known as judgment. If you are disturbed by someone, look upon them and see what is in within self that is so annoying because you choose not to be willing to see that the behavior of the individual is either something you are presently doing yourself, something you have done in the past, or something you are fearful of doing in the future.

Judgment also works the other way, when you find yourself enamored by someone, it is important for you to understand what you love about them is the same that is within you as well. You just don't see it as clearly when you are looking directly at yourself. When you release judgment of self in the understanding that you are your own true love, you can easily relinquish the debilitating judgment of others as well.

In order to fully realize your true love you must apply self-love; meaning do for self what you so willingly do for so many others. Give to self what you have been expecting or demanding others to give to you. Lovingly place yourself at the head of the line, rather in the rear where there is naught left for you. Place yourself not at the head of the banquet table, but rather in a seat at the round table of worthiness for all, as opposed to crawling at the feet of others scrounging for the leftovers or the crumbs that fall at their feet.

You are a queen or king, a Goddess or God because you are the personification of the love of the higher union that exists within you and you deserve the best of everything, not just the best of a few things or in some cases nothing good at all.

Use some of your money to purchase something for self, even if it is determined useless or frivolous by your logical mind or others. If you don't engage in the heart's desires, profound and or silly, you will surely have to spend the same amount of money or more on something else you were not expecting.

Or you may find yourself in a position to have to spend the same amount or more by surrendering it to a physician to help you heal the body that is reflecting back to you, via some disease or uncomfortable pain, your incorrect beliefs of not being love, loving, loved or lovable.


Apply self-love by living your life knowing its value and worth. Life is precious and precious few up until now have fully understood the gift of breath. Most of you allow others to live your life for you because you are in fear of loss of love, attention, safety or some other form of support.

The true love of you is independent and whole; it knows no lack and does not seek anything or anyone outside of self because it is always giving to self. It listens to the heart and follows the direction of what makes you happy. True love lives within a thriving joyful heart, not a fearful lacking mind.

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